Shabbat Forshpeis
A Taste of Torah in Honor of Shabbat
PARSHAT CHAYEI SARAH
GER TOSHAV: THE PERMANENT AND TEMPORARY STATUS OF HUMAN EXISTENCE
NOVEMBER 21-22, 2003 /27 HESHVAN 5764
As he buys a burial plot for
his wife Sarah, Avraham (Abraham) identifies himself as a ger toshav. (Genesis 23:4) The term is enigmatic. Ger means alien while toshav means resident. How could Avraham be both when those terms seem to be the opposite of one another?
On a simple level, Avraham tells the children of Heth that he initially came to their community as a stranger, but now he has finally settled in. Alternatively, the Midrash interprets Avraham declaring: "I am prepared to conduct myself as a stranger and pay for the burial plot. If, however, you rebuff me I will take it as a citizen who already owns the land that God had promised to His
children."
Rav Yosef Dov Soloveitchick sees it differently. For him, Avraham is defining the status of the Jew throughout history living amongst foreigners. No matter how comfortable a Jew may feel among others, in the end, the Jew is a stranger and is viewed as an other by his neighbors.
Another thought comes to mind. Avraham was a very successful man. He introduced the revolutionary idea of monotheismand, indeed is chosen to be the father of the Jewish nation. Still, as he buries his wife, he emotionally cries out that as accomplished as he may be, in the end he is vulnerable, with glaring weaknesses and frailtiesjust like everyone else. Hence, ger toshav resonates ones outlook on life. As much as one may feel like a toshav, like a resident who is in control of life, one, in the same breath is a ger, a strangerhere one day and gone the
next.
Commenting on the verse recited every Friday night which speaks of the rivers dancing and the trees clapping hands, Rav Shlomo Carlebach said:
"You know beautiful friends, the way we are living. One day I feel so good, the next day Im in the lowest dumps. One day Im so happy, the next day I want to commit suicide. I want you to know nature is very real. When a person says Im happy, the tree says, hey, wait till I see you tomorrow. One day I say Im so holy, then the rivers will say wait till tomorrow. You know one day there will be a great Shabbos, a never-ending Shabbos. One day the whole world will be good forever. One day therell be joy forever. So every Friday night when we receive Shabbos, Im crying, Im begging, Master of the world, let it be forever, let it be for real. You know my beautiful friends, so many houses are broken, so many hearts are broken so many windows are broken because nothing lasts forever, nothing lasts forever. But this Shabbos, let it be, let it be, let it be forever let the rivers dance, let the trees clap handsSo we are begging, we are crying before the One, let it be, let this Shabbos be forever, let us hear the great trumpet, ba-hatzotzros be-kol shofar. Let us hear the great trumpet, let us hear the greatest message, from now on everything good and holy will be forever."
But until that time, nothing lasts forever. All joy, says the Talmud, must be tempered with trembling. We are all, in the words of Avraham a ger toshav, permanent, yet temporary. Such is the way of the world.
Rabbi Avi Weiss
Shabbat Shalom,
Rabbi Avi Weiss
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